" Kasame waade pyaar wafa sab baate hain, baaton ka kya ?
Koi kisi ka nahin ye jhuthhe naate hain, naaton ka kya?
Hoga masiha saamane tere
Fir bhi n tu bach paayega
Tera apana khun hi akhir
Tujh ko ag lagaayega
Asamaan men udnewaale mitti men mil jaayega
Sukh men tere saath chalenge
Duhkh men sab mukh modenge
Duniyaawaale tere banakar
Tera hi dil todenge
Dete hain bhagawaan ko dhokha insaan ko kya chhodenge "
You all must be thinking why i am started with this lines.Well to give you the background the lines above is running in my mind from past two weeks as this one of the popular song of “Manna Dey” and what a great composition.
And Damn its so true as well.You know what sometimes(in my case most of the time as i m very emotional person and get attached easily) we as a human being get too attached to the thing,place,person,relationship or whatsoever and than when it does not go as it suppose to be ,we go mad and angry.
Sometimes we just don’t get angry but get HURT and trust me there is a hell lot of difference in being angry and being hurt. When you get angry its last sometimes and fade away after you get the real solution for the same ,this is just not true in case you are hurt.
It gives you pain,somewhere you are broken,shattered.Something which keeps you pinching over and again,its comes and stay and go and that come again but never leave you forever.
We do realize things later as to why this has happened and its good it has happened sooner its better.Its not always that we get hurt because of the other person but sometimes its due to our own assumption,expectation,desire from that particular relationship,person or situation and all we left is with pain.
Pain created by our own believe,by trusting someone,by letting things happened on its own and not trying to control it initially.So do all this pain is what we worth for and is it good to just blame yourself for not being judgmental,for not being demanding,for not being interrupting,for being a follower of other wishes,for care,for love,for investing time and emotion.
Well,its good to get slapped once but not again as we all need to learn to protect yourself from being hurt as end of everything we are hurting our peace ,our soul,our believe.
Stop hurting yourself and be more practical than being emotional.
Protect yourself from you.